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It's interesting because I don't support cheating, but I find the story of Katharine Hepburn and Spencer Tracy to be so romantic. If I recall correctly, Tracy and his wife were Catholic and didn't believe in divorce. I read a bio many years back about Hepburn and Tracy and was just fascinated by their relationship. What appealed to me about them was that it really did seem like a relationship where there were no expectations.
I think for a triangle to work, and for all parties to be involved, there has to be that- no expectations or demands- on all three people involved.
What responsibility does the lover have? They can't be demanding. There's a reason their lover isn't leaving their relationship and they have to be accepting of that. If you can't accept it, don't get involved.
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