Originally Posted by LiberalLady

In my humble opinion there are too many issues involved in anal sex to simplify it to 'it hurts'. I remember reading a Nancy Friday book that offered some great insight into the issue starting with mommies, toilet training, oral and anal fixations and so on. It was pretty eye-opening though of course it was her opinion. After reading the posts on this thread, I believe an interesting question to pose would be "How many men really want to have their asses played with but are too embarrassed or scared to ask?"

As for my own opinion of the topic: I love anal sex performed on me. A major plus is that my husband fessed up that he wanted to experience some anal play while we were dating. We got a nice pliable vibrator especially made for the ass and took it slow.