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Originally Posted by ShaniFaye
so lets see...are churches, funerals, and school classes ok for those of you that dont seem to care about respecting "quiet" places"
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Churches:
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Originally Posted by Shauk
I dont impose my beliefs on others in public facilities and I wouldn't hang out somewhere where others would do that to me anyway.
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Funerals: I've seen cell phones used at funerals before, the U.S. is a large place, and the workforce isn't always going to allow for time off. Sometimes people need to call the person that missed the funeral to grieve with them remotely. This is kind of an exception, but I mean would you flip out at the widow who's on the phone crying to her daughter who's 2000 miles away?
Aside from the "ceremony" itself, funerals aren't always quiet, it's people talking in many small pockets about the person who died, and usually only briefly before it goes off on a tangent of some sort. The only "silence" is the ceremony of giving a moment of silence.
it's amazing what people don't hear if you think this is "silence"
School Classes: Theres no unwritten rule, it's generally quite fucking clear as to what is acceptable and not in classrooms.
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Originally Posted by ShaniFaye
I have to say my mind here...this thread is totally pissing me off, thank god I have taught my 14 year old to have more respect for other people than some people here. Just because there are places where the "public" gather, it doesnt make them appropriate places for cell phone use.
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wow what a passive aggressive post.
don't mention me by name or anything but still go on to be like "my 14 year old is better than you"
and people say i'm rude? for challenging people to provide a reason for silence?
Hell, for the sake of argument, lets take a look at a wikipedia entry for Library
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Library
not once is there anything mentioned about being a place for people to quietly do anything. It goes on to state, the sole purpose of the library is to be a collection of information, it also goes on to state that "Library patrons may not know how to use a library effectively. This can be due to lack of early exposure, shyness, or anxiety and fear of displaying ignorance. In United States public libraries, beginning in the 19th century these problems drove the emergence of the library instruction movement, which advocated library user education"
I may be pissing people off in this thread but I think the way people are so "Matter of factly " posting stuff about libraries being quiet and saying that their sole purpose is to do stuff like homework, or write some paper about something that some teacher assigned to xyz student for no other reason than to have something to assign a grade to, without any information aside from their personal upbringing and opinion pieces to back it up is a bit bold.
I'm borderline insulted in return that instead of a debate, i'm met with a passive aggressive insult to my experience in life and my "respect" for others is put in to question.
If you must know, i've never even used my phone in a library, so keep that in mind before people start jumping my shit about this topic.
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Originally Posted by merleniau
Sure, the occasional "yes, that meeting time is fine, see you then" is important, but you are still disturbing library patrons in a quiet area by answering it. The best solution? Grab a seat near a "loud" area (elevator, front desk, etc.) and stand up and move away from the quiet area to answer your phone. It's common courtesy, and it should be seen more often!
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and that's exactly what I'd expect I'd do.