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Originally Posted by levite
I believe in full disclosure, but it's got to be apropos. Like, don't just look up from your newspaper some morning while your honey's eating her cereal and be like, "so did I ever tell you that when I was at camp one summer my whole cabin had a circle-jerk?"
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Are you kidding? That is essential, like cup of tea/coffee. A good laugh wakes me up!
//never been in a circle jerk-- don't plan on it either//
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Also, I while I tell my GFs anything they ask, and don't hide anything from them, I respect it if someone's different. My only rule is, "you don't have to tell me anything you don't want to, just don't ever lie to me."
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Agreed. I still wish they could tell me any questions I have, I don't need names, nor will I guess who it was with in her past, but I never want to be lied to. As I've stated earlier, she has full access to my past, except names.
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One of my friends in high school had the misfortune of asking his girl if she'd ever gone down on other guys. Rather than just saying she didn't feel comfortable answering that question, she told him no. He found out a couple of months later that she'd lied by virtue of an acquaintance casually letting drop that she had once, at a post-game party, gone down on the entire playing lineup of the basketball team, in succession, complete with teabaggings and a couple of round-the-worlds, in front of the entire team, the cheerleaders, and most of the rest of the pep squad. I've never been lied to quite that dramatically, but it's still a dealbreaker with me.
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I am impressed. I don't believe it, but wow, I am entertaining that notion and the shock someone would receive.