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Originally Posted by little_tippler
I think it's possible...it depends on the person and their maturity level...
I think I was in love when I was about 16, with one particular person...
I am now 27 and I still think about that person occasionally.
I have also been through other experiencesafter that where I thought maybe I was in love and now realize I couldn't have been.
But that one experience at 16...still sticks in my mind.
Mainly because it involved sacrificing my own happiness for him to be happy...
and I also feel that he was someone I totally got and who totally got me...and I only see the value of that now.
Weird stuff.
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We think about them because they were our firsts. No way to get around that. It is like an imprint in the mind- rapid change of chemicals causing all sorts of new experiences.
Despite knowing that, doesn't change the fact I still think about what it might have been like with a girl like my first. I have come to realize that I the woman she became is not someone I can respect as much as back then.