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Maybe so, but I can attest to a time before I tried anal sex when my partner rammed me unintentionally while engaging in some pretty enthusiastic fucking and it did hurt...like seeing stars kind of pain.

gg, I wouldn't let that experience turn you off of anal sex forever. It's one thing if you're just not interested in it. But there is a huge difference in sensation between an unprepared battering ram accident and properly performed anal play/sex.

And I have never felt degraded by anal sex - dominated, yes - but not degraded.

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