I love how we get one of these every 6 weeks or so, and every one is 'a totally unique situation.'
This isn't rocket science, dude. We can observe evidence that it isn't by observing the average population of trailer parks. Stop thinking about it so damn much and just do something.
Personally, I figure women with other dudes are off-limits. It's less about 'not doing that to some other guy' (since she'd be the one hurting him and not me) and more 'if she'll leave him for me, what will she leave me for?' There's plenty of other women out there who aren't so much trouble. On the other hand, if you just feel like you gotta do something then go ahead and do it already. You gotta take the plunge sooner or later.
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I wake up in the morning more tired than before I slept
I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept
I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head
I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said
- Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame
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