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Originally Posted by dirtyrascal7
You just need to break him of the rookie mistake of having sex simply to get off... make him slow down and focus on you, don't just let him pound away. Have him look into your eyes, guide his hips and set the pace, and when it does feel good for you, really vocalize it and let him know you like it... getting good feedback is always welcome, and it generally makes us want to try harder. When my girlfriend moans out or yells, "Oh... my... God...", that makes me want to please her even more and try to get her to moan even louder.
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I need to Ravel to back this up... but informing him like that of when it is good is like Pavlovian training... and Pavlov used dogs to come up with his ideas on conditioning. So in a sense, 'Joe would be training him like a dog...
@Ranger Joe
It definitely works to use good intuitive cues that he is doing good. I'm no G-Spot Ninja but if I hear the "Ooooo" I try much harder to hear more "ooooOOoooo"s.