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You must watch his ego. Be gentle.
Say, for example, he's touching you and is slightly off the spot. Gently guide his hand over that little bit and let him know how good that feels.
I was passive (because I wanted him to show that he wanted me) until I learned that I could gain so much more enjoyment simply by showing (by guiding him physically) and eventually finding non-interruptus methods of softly and gently voicing my preferences. Even the man who's initially in it for himself will eventually see the benefits and find himself eager to please his lady.
Oh and it can't hurt to keep feeding the male ego. Shower him with praise for everything that's just right.
And don't forget to reciprocate.
