There are two ways to learn something:
Endless repetition or blunt force trauma.
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My guess? You're not into beating him into a G-spot ninja.
You'll want to engage in said activity and get him comfortable.
He's got a lot of issues to sort out right now: his feelings for you, blowing too soon, not giving you an orgasm, not being as good as other partners, trying to figure out why he's only had sex a few times in a zillion years, etc. These things are all based on unfounded fears and comparison to things he doesn't have experience with yet. Change that.
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It's like those Nike ads: Just do it. It gets better.
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You're not doing it right if you don't have sore hips this weekend.
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