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Originally Posted by Augi
It's still a game, you are using tactics towards the outcome most preferable [to you]. :P
@Slim:
It's all a game, and it's all real. Take everything with a dash of salt (or cayenne pepper) and you'll find better things do come your way.
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I don't agree that what allaboutmusic suggested is a game. What makes it a game is if you act (or don't act) with manipulative purposes. For instance, if you were not calling as a means of sending a contrary message to her (that you're nonchalant about it when the opposite is true), it's very different from not calling because you don't want to be pushy.
I'll never go along with this 'it's all a game' malarkey. I've no interest in that and I'm really not interested in anyone who sees a possible relationship with me in that way. Like something that needs to be manipulated and trapped. I'm only interested in the straight-up deals, thank you.
