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If you "train" him wrong, he could be screwed for life. pun intended
I don't see why you're trying to put so much emphasis on the sexual aspect of the relationship. Sex is great and all, but what's the rush. Relax.
Probably after each sexual session he'll go wow because he doesn't have very much to compare it to.
Never verbalize that the sex is bad either, just try to be an positive as possible. Saying it can be a real downer...(pun intended) He needs to build up his sexual confidence first off. If you're taking the lead all the time, he might expect it to be that way for every other person in the possible future.
Also sometimes when the sex is bad it just might be because there's no sexual chemistry, not because he's inexperienced. Just a thought.
Hopefully you guys will figure things out...and it won't be awkward the next go around. I dated a guy who had only had sex once, he wasn't any good in the sack either. I think we did it like 2 times before I broke up with him and left to go to Lubbock and start school. So...not trying to be negative but just bringing some perspectives to light.
Don't rush things!! Plenty of time for sex! Enjoy your proximity to one another.
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