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Originally Posted by RangerJoe
Now, I'm a pretty passive person in the bedroom. I really don't like taking the lead.
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You'll want to change that. After all, if you don't make sure you're getting what you need, what incentive does he have? Don't get me wrong, here. I like to think that there are enough guys out there who are considerate enough to make sure that she gets hers too, but at the same time if you leave it entirely up to him, how's he going to know he needs to change?
willravel's right about the whole rookie mistake deal too. It sounds like he just needs to learn to slow down and pay attention. If he doesn't show any indication of doing that on his own you'll need to take control and set the pace, so that he can discover the joys.