Training in the Bedroom
All right, so here's the deal. I have recently acquired a boyfriend (yay, me! It's been 4 years since I've had that status). Well, I ended up seducing him over the weekend. He's a shy guy, so I assumed that was why he hasn't made any sexual advances. Well, in the midst of "doing it," he told me it was only the second time he's had sex.
AWKWARD.
The good news is that this explains why the sex was so bad. The bad news is that I have no clue how to show him how to be better. Don't get me wrong, I've been told that I'm awesome in bed. But, I've also been with some pretty experienced people.
Now, I'm a pretty passive person in the bedroom. I really don't like taking the lead. I do realize, though, that I need to be more aggressive in order to achieve bringing out HIS aggressiveness. Seeing as how I have never been the aggressive one, though, I'm not quite sure how to do this.
I really would like to end each sex session with him going "wow," though, so any suggestions are welcome. (:
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