Starting three threads in two minutes? I'm impressed.
I don't think anybody should ever rush into marriage. If it's not right, it will come undone later on and people will get burned emotionally and financially. Gets much more complicated when you have a kid, but I really think people should take more responsibility than that - unwanted pregnancies should simply not happen. Either don't have sex or take the right precautions. Don't screw a kid over because bareback feels better.