Do you think a couple should get married when faced with an unexpected pregnancy?
I don't think I'd like it for myself. While the part where the father is part of the child's life is fantastic, is it worth my life potentially being one of regret? I'd much rather allow the relationship between him & I to continue to develop until we are ready to marry. Ideally that would be my choice.
However, a couple close to my boyfriend & I got married after a pregnancy, and things are going just fine so far. I know he's told me he's happy with her. So it can work the other way too.
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