Anal sex doesn't "help" us with our insecurities. I put help in quotations because obviously, body modifications don't always assist to women's self-esteems.
And, obviously, anal sex doesn't always hurt.
I don't think anal sex has to be degrading. I'm not quite sure if that's the right analysis. I love piercings and tattoos, if I had the money I'd have some plastic surgery done, and I still like to be degraded in bed. It's mostly because of my insecurities.
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