Ktspktsp and I also figured that if he was going to be asking my parents, then I should be asking his parents, so that it wasn't some daughter-ownership (or romantic-expectation) thing... but rather, honoring each other's parents. But then we had to get married in a hurry, so we just dropped the whole thing.
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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
--Khalil Gibran
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