why is it such a big deal if it hurts some of us? The pain of all the stuff mentioned in the OP is NOTHING compared to the pain of anal sex for me, and lord knows I've tried it many times with many people and followed all the "steps" for doing it right....it hurts me...end of story
just like there are some guys that enjoy anal stuff and some that dont
why the hell should I waste my pleasure time with something that is painful to the point of making me cry?
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Originally Posted by abaya
Well, I agree, but I think it's even moreso all about the relationship itself... do you trust each other? Do you like to try new things? Do you have any fears of the other person doing something to hurt you, even accidentally?
But I also know that sometimes, anatomically, it doesn't always work. Usually this is where ShaniFaye would come in and tell us that while she's open to pretty much everything, anal just doesn't feel good for her, and she's tried it. In those cases, it's not the people involved, it's just their particular anatomy, I think. But I think that is fairly rare... usually it's a psychological or emotional problem between the two people involved.
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lol I didnt see this until after I replied....and you're right....I enjoy LITTLE toys and fingers, but dicks banging in and out of my ass fucking hurts....a LOT