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Originally Posted by jewels443
Nah. It's all about the man. If he knows what it takes to get her going, she'll not only trust him, but natural lube will do the job, pain-free, and she'll be open to just about anything.
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Well, I agree, but I think it's even moreso all about the relationship itself... do you trust each other? Do you like to try new things? Do you have any fears of the other person doing something to hurt you, even accidentally?
But I also know that sometimes, anatomically, it doesn't always work. Usually this is where ShaniFaye would come in and tell us that while she's open to pretty much everything, anal just doesn't feel good for her, and she's tried it. In those cases, it's not the people involved, it's just their particular anatomy, I think. But I think that is fairly rare... usually it's a psychological or emotional problem between the two people involved.