Hmph, I haven't done ANY of those things that the guy said that "women do" in his signature... but I do love me some anal sex, lemme tell ya!
And it DOESN'T hurt, if it's done right.
But then again, ktspktsp and I have a pretty rockin' relationship, and I think that has a lot to do with my/our attitude towards anal. I would have never let any of my previous boyfriends anywhere near my ass (or any other orifice, come to think of it), honestly.