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Originally Posted by pig
Fuck all these tricks. You need to have an adult mature-like conversation with her and get to the bottom of the situation. As much as I like the idea of dressing up in a ninja outfit for many of these situations, in this case you need to just have a discussion with her. Asking us why she might have these hangups or how you might progress things is going to waste your time. Just talk to her, and not while you're trying to slip your dick into the general vicinity of her mouth. Don't attack her, but just tell her you don't understand the situation and that you'd like to be able to talk about it.
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I fully agree that the bottom line is that the discussion should be opened up more. The trouble is that she has not fully been open to the discussion either, or at least from the sound of it. Yes of course, they need to talk. The trouble is in making this an open discussion without her getting all embarassed and not wanting to speak up. Like I said, he needs to find out what her concerns are about oral, is it just cleanliness? How about a shower together first. There is more to this that has not been brought out in the open. Perhaps he is right, she is just uncomfortable with her sexuality. In that case, loosening her up in some way may be just what is needed.