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Originally Posted by Kaimi
After a two year relationship you must clear the air. There is no reason for you to feel selfish about pushing the subject, at least to talk about it. Is she worried about your taste? Is she concerned about a gag reflex? I would suggest you and your love share some quality time at a forum where she can see the responses of other individuals. It may be that she is not sure how to do it properly? Let her know that any time she touches you it feels wonderful and bonding, that those moments are meaningful to you. That she doesn't have to worry about getting it wrong.
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Good advice. It still just sounds like there is something she does not want to tell boobmandan.
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From what I understand(guys correct me if I am wrong here) even a "bad" blow job is still pleasurable.
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No. No, there is such a thing as a bad blow job, and BAD SEX. I believed sex was like pizza: if it is good, it's really good; if it's bad, it's still good. I found out, no, that isn't always the case.
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Another thought for you, have you ever tried to loosen her up with a romantic sensual massage? Sneaking your tongue in certain spots at the appropriate time? She truly does not know what she is missing. I commend you for wanting to work this out rather then to just cast her aside, but she has to open up for you first. Your relationship is counting on it.
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Night on the town, home cooked (ordered from Won Ton's) dinner, wine, massage with mildly scented oils (too strong is bad, so go with the for-sure), candles, music... if nothing else she'll tell you she appreciates the night (and you think to yourself, "I was just blocked by gratitude.").