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After a two year relationship you must clear the air. There is no reason for you to feel selfish about pushing the subject, at least to talk about it. Is she worried about your taste? Is she concerned about a gag reflex? I would suggest you and your love share some quality time at a forum where she can see the responses of other individuals. It may be that she is not sure how to do it properly? Let her know that any time she touches you it feels wonderful and bonding, that those moments are meaningful to you. That she doesn't have to worry about getting it wrong. From what I understand(guys correct me if I am wrong here) even a "bad" blow job is still pleasurable. What about asking her or telling her that you are willing to pull out or warn her when the moment erupts?
Another thought for you, have you ever tried to loosen her up with a romantic sensual massage? Sneaking your tongue in certain spots at the appropriate time? She truly does not know what she is missing. I commend you for wanting to work this out rather then to just cast her aside, but she has to open up for you first. Your relationship is counting on it.
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