I have to agree that it should be a woman choice and the man should keep it in his pants if he is not willing to support a possible outcome.
However I will tell you of a sad lady that I know of. She wants a child very badly and literally on her first date will have unprotected sex if the guy wants and will talk about children the minute she meets a new man. So much so that after sex with a guy where he wore a condom, and after when he went to the bathroom she took the condom and tried to impregnate herself (do not need to go in to more details then that I hope). Now imagine if she had gotten pregnant (she didn't), she could then claim child support. Now this is a woman who is probably bi-polar and have other psychological issues and is a rarity, but the man in my mind would be screwed (well twice).
So I 99.99% agree with women having that control aspect it is their body and we can not force them to have an abortion, and if we have sex we should be prepared for all possible outcomes. But like the example above, which is only a case I know of, and there is probably a lot more craziness out there, the man would be in my book getting the shaft.
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