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Originally Posted by JinnKai
Keep in mind that this is a minority position, simply because it requires a good deal of self confidence to say "Yea, go for it. If we both go for her and she picks me, then clearly I had more of what she wanted." It doesn't have to be an ego hit if a girl picks you over your 'bro', so long as you have the maturity to realize that it is indicative of her preference rather than a flaw in yourself.
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That's the toughest part, frankly. Not to argue against what you are saying, which, as the person directly involved, I agree with, but its easier to say things like that than to live it. I know, in my purely logical brain, that this is the case. My emotional responses are purely reptile. It's not fair to her, or him, or me.
I have a lot of work to do.
Veritas et Lux!
Jimmy The Hutt