I play a game on a certain site called Joggle, its a word game, sort of like Boggle, only online. Anyway, they have a forum, and one of the other players is writing a book on how math should be taught.
I was impressed with what little I have read of it, as he added some excerpts in the forum. 
this is one of them:
 From: superjudge       Date: October 1, 2007      Time: 2:45:54 AM      [REPLY] 
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  This is my first draft of the preface/intro to my book, tentatively titled "X2 Files: The Secret Failure of Math Education" 
The big theme of the book is the topic of a couple of keynotes that I have given, "Perspiration vs. Inspiration: Which Mathematical Road Are We On? 
There will be edits of course, but this is the direction of the book
 
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The innocence of children is perhaps captured none better than when they 
taste new food for the first time. Graces, manners, and customs are hilariously 
absent when a baby rejects the offerings from a frustrated parent in no uncertain 
terms. I have pictures of my son doing battle royal with pureed squash with his hands 
unknowingly paying homage to Bruce Lee. His face is a portrait of pain and obstinance 
that borders cartoon exaggeration—although it often seems that his head has the ability 
to swivel 180 degrees away from the incoming mash of death. 
The communication is unrefined, but it is highly effective. The crying, screaming and 
stiff-arming not only keeps the evil root vegetable at bay, it makes me rethink my 
approach to giving my son the nourishment and flavor that he deserves. 
For most of us, math was the orange guck of education. And, schools worldwide 
have been serving this historically unsatisfying gruel for over 50 years. The packaging 
might have changed (fancier textbooks and fancier calculators), but the content and 
the approach have yet to see a revolution of any significance—most people still hate 
math! Finding medians of triangles might have been crucial to people during the baby 
boom—a mathematical procedure having all the drama of a cheese sandwich—but today 
it only qualifies as the pogo stick of mathematics. The uncontested Canon of 
mathematics still must be learned by all of us. Correction. Endured by all of us. 
We are still solving math problems involving digging ditches, rowing boats 
upstream, calculating angles of guy wires and picking marbles out of a bag. I often 
wonder why I also didn’t succumb to the cricket sounds that were produced by these 
sleep-inducing topics. 
In addition to a stale math curriculum, schools are frantically seeking breadth, 
instead of calmly seeking depth. Deep understanding has been replaced by the popular 
understudy called correctness. Calculators and teaching to the test have allowed for rave 
reviews for this misguided goal of mathematics. Students, teachers, administrators and 
parents can all share the blame in having math riddled with memorization tricks and 
gimmicky language. Flip it and multiply is still used by many teachers to explain to 
students how to divide fractions. Even Danica McKellar, who played Winnie on The 
Wonder Years, advocates this kind of explanation in her book, Math Doesn’t Suck. 
Actually Danica, a lot of high school math does and so does your “mathemagican” 
explanation of division. 
Why children still need to find the answer to something like 4⅜ ÷ 1⅔ is completely 
beyond me. Oh sure, like a trained seal they can get the correct answer, but what’s the 
point when they don’t really understand the question or the answer. Keep spinning that 
ball on your nose, Jimmy. Mathematics education: Wasting the lives of one student at 
a time. 
It’s small wonder that very few people understand mathematics, never mind enjoy it. 
While the carrot of assessment dangles in every subject, mathematics cannot exist 
without it. The audience does not want to learn math—it has to learn math. 
This might be acceptable if the knowledge that was communicated was breathtaking 
or beneficial. And while there are points of brilliant light in math education, the overall 
spectrum suffers from an almost immovable dullness. As a result of these factors and 
many more, the actual literacy level of the average high school math student is probably 
near a primary level. Yes. I said “literacy”. I don’t like “numeracy” because it sounds 
like it was invented by someone who writes jingles for a living. Mathematics is a 
a beautiful language that is a thousands of years old. Please don’t refer to it in a way that 
implies it can be reduced to counting on your fingers and toes. And therein lies the heart 
of the problem—false representation. Mathematics is one of the most stunning and 
boundless parts of our existence. An inability to communicate its true measure and worth 
is a tragic failure that has yet to be reported. Until now. 
You and others have millions of hours of experience toiling in the mathematical mines, 
excavating supposed brilliant deposits of knowledge—which unbeknownst to you, turned 
out to be worthless lumps of coal. Your stories of boredom, intimidation and anxiety 
have rarely been heard outside the narrow walls of academia. Any documentation on the 
harm on the relevancy and stress of how and what students learn about math in school has 
been far removed from public consumption. 
The safe and explorative environment that children start out learning math in is very 
soon replaced by one that is preoccupied with constant testing, unwarranted volumes of 
homework and various societal pressures—never tempered by the realities of childhood 
and adolescence. Math classrooms of today are more like academic sweatshops, 
producing perspiration instead of inspiration. Most math teachers roll out the 
curriculum with the speed of a runaway train—often unconcerned whether or not 
passengers are actually boarding. My favorite high school teacher taught us with the 
calmness and relaxed demeanor that made you feel like you were sipping lemonade 
with him on a breezy summer day. His name was Mr. Scott. He was a tall, somewhat 
gangly fellow. His height, warmth and wisdom made me think of Gandalf from Lord of 
the Rings. The only thing he ever held in his hand was a cup of coffee. No chalk. No 
marker. Nothing. Whenever he took a satisfying gulp from his cup, you could be sure 
a probing question or wonderful observation was going to follow. 
Mr. Scott was my history teacher. While students loved the way he could talk about 
bloody Assyrian battles, Napolean’s ingenious morale building techniques, or the 
bravery of World War I soldiers combating mustard gas(wrapping shirts soaked in urine 
around their faces), it is not why we loved Mr. Scott. 
His ability to communicate history with astonishing detail was eclipsed by the elements 
that are in short supply in not just math, but most subjects—passion and love. 
His smile. His voice projection. His smirks and timely inflections. His purposeful eyes. 
They all merged many times during his lessons to underscore how much he loved his 
job, subject and students. 
If love is not at the bottom of your craft/knowledge, then communicating it to strange 
and detached students will be a fruitless endeavor. You might as well give them links 
to Wikipedia and be done with it. So, while this book does have strong overtones of 
that angry letter to the editor, it is in the end, a love letter to mathematics. 
In this letter I hope you find that she is not some ugly creature pocked with blemishes 
of polynomials, marked with scars of useless long division, and saddled with a 
personality of a toad with its slavish devotion to the absurd demands of fraction 
reduction. If this story could be told as Beauty and the Beast, then it is mathematics 
which is Beauty and education which is Beast. The tragedy is that education has 
rendered and distilled mathematics from a vintage bottle of wine to a commercial vat 
of vinegar. The only thing which rivals the ire towards mathematics is the school’s 
cafeteria serving fish sticks on a Monday. 
The problem is that fish sticks only cost you 5 bucks. Receiving a poor math 
education was a much steeper cost. You don’t know it, but you are still paying for 
it today. Do you buy insurance? Do you buy more than one lottery ticket? Do you 
buy extended warranties? Do you rely heavily on a calculator? Do you still imagine 
doodled drawings of your math teachers with plus signs for eyes? If you said yes to any 
of these questions, then you better take your math education to the 7th floor of Sears and 
demand a refund. 
In lieu of deserving reparation for your years of confusion, boredom and anxiety, I 
offer you this book. You won’t get any better at calculus, but you will wish that you 
could. 
“Not everyone can be a mathematician, but everyone should want to be one” 
R. Moore 
you can read more here
http://joggle.pixelsharp.com/f_view_topic.asp?id=3499
 
one of the other players has totally attacked him and his writing, which seems to take away any comments directed at the writing of the book.       
I can't seem to understand why some people have to be so mean. this is what he said about the book:
 From: mr_bog       Date: October 2, 2007      Time: 10:21:44 AM      [REPLY]
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  It comes off as quite pretentious and arrogant and overblown to me. If your pontifications on mathematics are anything like your sophomorisms on politics, then I think I can do without it. To quote Eulcid "There is no royal road to geometry 
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in the forum there, is a site posted that is sort of an explanation of the reason the other guy is attacking him, but I just don't get it??