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jimmy: while i understand your rationalization of the events and your decision to move on, particularly with respect to your buddy who you've been friends with for 13 years, you shouldn't delude yourself into thinking that this is acceptable behavior or that it's all your fault. your friend's position is pure bullshit. if i've been out a few times with a girl, and i invite her to a party, then she's hands off to my buddies. it doesn't matter how much they vibe, whether or not they spontaneously start speaking in a unique language all their own and have a moment of bliss normally attributed to the effects of massive doses of lsd - she's hands off until after a conversation has occurred between myself and my friend. frankly, she's probably de facto off limits for a while after that conversation as well, while everyone gets adjusted. sure, maybe he's fucking her behind my back, but she's already given me the 'it's not you, it's me' talk and we've cut ties, etc. if you bring a chick over to your house and your buddy ends up hooking up with her, that's a complete violation of your friendship and you're completely normal to feel deceived by that.
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