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most men, including me, don't even think about falling in love until after sex has been had. we're so curious about what the sex will be like and so horny to get it on, that it can get in the way of getting to know a girl enough to fall in love with her. we can be very attracted and build on chemistry, but we don't let our minds go down that path till we're blissfully staring at the ceiling.
also, i think it has to do with how men and women get turned on. men are more visually stimulated (hence porn being so popular with them) while women historically get turned on by other aesthetics (smells, thoughts, sounds). the latter is naturally more involving and more stimulated by actually being "in love", while the former lends itself to point A to point B mentality.
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-my phobia drowned while i was gettin down.
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