i see you're sharing los angeles with me. L.A. is particularly treacherous because half of everyone's job is networking. as a result, going to bars or clubs or parties is more like going to office functions... everyone has their guard up more than other cities, and unfortunately L.A. attracts a lot of people that are more interested in what you can do for them than actually getting to know you.
that said, moments of chemistry still do exist... you just have to put in the extra effort to detect them and bring them to their potential when they happen.
in the meantime, don't be afraid to be picky... there are enough people out there with the complete package of what you want that you don't have to settle for half of it.
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-my phobia drowned while i was gettin down.
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