It could be that being a virgin at 21 that's she's built up sex into something that makes her nervous as hell. It could also be that she just doesn't like giving head. I've heard legends of women out there who don't like it. It's weird, I know, but it's true. Is it that she just doesn't like giving head or does she not like receiving it, either?
I think this is key. If she likes receiving, then I think you can find compromise. If she doesn't like receiving, then you have to start thinking about if this is something you are willing to put up with for the long haul.
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