If you take a look at a questionnaire (almost any about the subject of "what matters most in life"), you'll see some answers by women to the effect of "he who dies with the most toys wins," and then the men will have said, "he who dies with the most women wins." More often than women, men are the ones who spend a portion of their life struggling to become appealing to the opposite sex. On the other hand, women get attention, solicited or unsolicited, from an early age onward. That's why there is such a difference in the pursuit.
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