eek..way to many replies to read...but I'll post anyway
Married almost 12 years. me(him)38, her 37. Sex has continually improved throughout the relationship. Two kids (10 and 12 both boys), so their activities, our work, hobbies, etc. All that taken into account, we have sex at a minimum twice a week, with the max probably being 4-6, depending if you count an occasional double wammy. I couldn't imagine a relationship without regular sex. Sure sex isn't absolute EVERYTHING, but I couldn't imagine not wanting to please her sexually, and vice versa. I'm hoping it'll keep me in better health as I get older...time will tell.
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