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Originally Posted by soldsoul4foos
Actually, something that would make her a little less inhibitted might not be a bad idea.
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Some folks call it alcohol.
The right environment
might help. You could try the whole romantic dinner thing; candle light, a nicely set table, a glass of wine or two, etc. It's cheesy, but sometimes it does work. If I'm going to be honest, though, I don't really think it will in your situation. It sounds to me like she's uncomfortable with her body and/or sex in general, and I don't think you can fix that with a little romance. This is not something you can fix overnight, or at all for that matter. You can help, but it's up to her to face her issues and deal with them. This is why we call them her issues, and not your issues.
Out of curiosity, have you ever had a frank discussion with her on the matter? It might help you both to explore a little bit into why she feels the way she does and how it makes you feel in turn, rather than just guessing or asking a group of people who've never met the girl (ie, us).
Mind, these are just my disjointed 2 am thoughts. I do not ever profess to hold all the answers. So take it how you will.