I'd have her look into the patch. I'm pretty sure alot of doctors won't prescribe it anymore because of the side effects. I thought they had taken it off the market and one of my friends tried to use it awhile back and had some really bad mood swings and felt "odd" while she was using it.
As far as the sexual side of it, my roomie has admitted that she doesn't like oral either. She says she thinks its weird and it grosses her out to think of all the germs. I have tried to tell her that if the people are clean then there is no problem but she still can't get over the way she feels. So I don't thing your girlfriend is alone in her thoughts.
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