the science of motivation theory states that, we seek to achieve the relief of tension, and stress, by eating, fullfilling our animal desires, but when we seek to obliterate them completely,, by over-eating, or over-indulgence, they seem to only become more powerful, create more tension and stress, resulting in perversions, obesity, sadism, evil covetousness and greed. bu why? how come the more we have, the more we want, and the less we get, the less we need? Our inner ability to endure stress, is weakened, the fact that when we endure stress, we become stronger and more able to endure it, is a key component of our nature. We all kneel before the stronger will, submit to it, worship it, because it benefits us, the strong will in others, strengthens us as well, if we submit to it. If we contest it, it destroys us, so then we fear it as well.
happiness lies in balance, that is the way of the Tao. (P.S. I am really an unhappy loser)