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First thing I have to say: bummer. That is a pretty long time, and kinda strange communication was not worked out earlier in the relationship.
Second, that was a fairly useless move telling her you had a one night stand. Not good conversation, regardless of your feelings for her.
Third, she is your first. First's have a lasting impression, but that is because of all the chemicals in your head that you haven't quite experienced before.
Fourth, yeah she probably had a little power high somewhere deep inside that you still wanted her. When you said, "Had a one night stand," and popped that, she got mad and most likely said things that would be like salt in the wounds. Happens all the time.
So the hard part now is to move on from this long relationship. Just don't lose yourself thinking you can get her back or get back at her. It doesn't make you any better than you are today.
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