Sultana: Rules of thumb that I usually lived by: subtle touching, such as on the arm, hand, or waist indicated to me that the interest was more than platonic. It kept some guys out of my "friendship pile." Much more than that to start with, and it turned out (later) to be someone who was either pushy, moved too quickly for me, or someone who was interested in my body but not necessarily in me. I'm glad I'm not in that race anymore. It was getting harder and harder to find someone that didn't scare me off in the first week (or day). I hope things are looking better for you. If you can find someone to have fun with, that's one of the most important parts about dating.
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