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Originally Posted by little_tippler
would be good if you could give us your opinion on the subject also?
Through my own experience, there are certain things that are best kept to yourself. You can always partially disclose them, but if you disclose fully, you run the risk of it coming back to bite you at a later date, if you break-up, or are having an argument, or things aren't going well. People can be quite cruel when they're angry - don't give them fuel is what I say. If ti's not going to improve your relationship or isn't relevant, why expose yourself that way?
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I have to agree with this....and also from my own personal experience.
There is a big difference between answering a question and offering up TMI.
I don't need to lie to anyone about anything, but I don't bring up too much of the past without a reason.
It also depends on the depth of the relationship.