well, yeah...but the OP already acknowledged that he has problems with his relationship. i don't think that's the question, or at least not in my eyes. the question to me is, once problems have been acknowledged, how do you work on them? that's when looking at the particular way your SO and the person who makes you uncomfortable interact becomes important, and asking yourself where your jealously arises. some jealousy is just a problem within your own mind, and some of it is completely valid. regardless, the conversation should be something you can create with your SO without feeling like you're going to be attacked for it. that leads to repressing emotions, and in my experience that almost always ruins the relationship. Eats it from within.
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