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Was a time....when I truly cared about a girl most would consider quite unattractive. Thing is, she knew it, and became nearly depressed about her physical appearance, but I became her friend, and in a way I loved her. Over a couple month period I gave her "attention" in many ways to build her self esteem and it worked wonders.
She lost 40 lbs, and made abrupt changes to her appearance that pushed her into the attractive arena. When the inevitable came...I just smiled inside and told her she rocks. Haven't talked to her in years, but I bet shes happy and confident...woo hoo.
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Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha
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