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Old 01-11-2008, 08:18 AM   #19 (permalink)
genuinegirly
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Mr. Self Distruct has something there.

I've never done this one before, so I have no tried and true results to share (I assume the jokers on this thread feel the same).

But I've had it done to me quite a few times. A few that stood out as meaningful:
- slight lingering on the hug, like they don't want to let go
- rest their cheek on my head (I'm 5'4")
- brushing kiss on the cheek
- guy who normally doesn't pass around hugs like party favors decided to give me one.

Though that last one was moving, it was slightly akward.

Some that were not welcome:
- scratching my back after a solid hug
- clinging to me after the hug or otherwise making a scene
- nuzzling my neck with their cheek during the hug
- resting their hand in the small of my back as I let go of the hug
- unexpected (even if quick) kiss on the lips.
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