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A couple of my friends have a hard time climaxing. Sometimes when I'm having sex with somebody I like and whose judgement I worry about, I tend to halt myself from getting an orgasm out of shyness/fear. This could be the case.
My friend, A.T., can't cum because it's just too painful for her. She tried getting past the pain to see if it leads to an orgasm, but she said that it just leads to more pain. She says it just feels too intense.
My other friend, A.S., can't cum because sex isn't intense enough for her. She told me that she can get real close to orgasm, but never actually cums. Even with masturbation, she has a hard time with it.
Sex doesn't have to just be about the climax; it can be about the intimacy and bond you two have. But, you probably already know that.
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