Originally Posted by Amnesia620

You know, I can see it from both sides. Growing up, I was always thin. I'm 5'4" and I never went over 110 lbs. Now that I'm in my late 20's, I find that due to choices in my life, eating habits and whatnot, I'm 150 lbs. To me, and because of society's view on weight, I feel I need to lose 30 lbs. However, I'm finding more and more men prefer women with some meat on their bones...obesity isn't attractive, but if you wear your weight well then why not flaunt it? People need to learn to be comfortable in their own skin and improve themselves in other ways, then they'll find that they are beautiful in their own eyes, and no one else's opinion will matter.