Aha! I hadn't even thought about how much easier it would be financially for you to be a single parent while attending graduate school. Grants and low-interest loans galore. Smart thinking. This is a good option, if you make sure you don't start graduate school until all ties are broken and the kids are definitively yours.
It's definitely a messed up situation. She's treating you horribly. Moving on is a great idea. Sounds like since you've been dealing with school and the workplace all this time, you've experienced considerably more personal development.
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