It's a matter of proportions. If you have large hips (which is a trait that was far more common 50 years ago) then you can have a larger waistline. A lot of "skinny" girls these days? They have boyish figures. You throw another 20 pounds on them and they have a gut, not a sexy, curvy figure. I'm not sure what dietary (or other) change occured in the last half century, but THAT is the big difference these days. A lot of girls would put on weight and not be "curvy" the way we truly idealize women. Some women pull it off amazingly.
Now, with the above said, I also believe that a lot of sexiness and attractiveness is based on attitude and self-awareness rather than blunt body build. My ex was a little bit bigger (a 14 I do believe) but she wasn't "fat". She carried herself amazingly (she was also on the shortish side) and she never looked ungood. I have a friend that is "bigger", but she also takes care of how she looks (dress, style, et cetera) and she is very happy with herself. She is a very pretty girl!
Of course, of note is that I am attracted to a very broad array of girl types. There are girls in almost any "group" of body type that I will find attractive and that I will not. The exception is the ultra skinny. I cannot STAND a girl that you could play the xylophone on her ribs. But again, it's a personal preference. I've dated thicker girls, thinner girls, shorter girls, average girls... *shrug* There's a lot more to attraction than the number on a scale.
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