I do not demand full disclosure; I practice it. And so does my husband. So no demands need to be made, since we already offer our secrets willingly and in trust of the other person to not judge us. Seems to work for us.
From the very first week we got together, we started telling each other everything about our pasts and present. It was one of the building blocks of intimacy and trust between us, and it continues to this day. It is just our Standard Operating Procedure, and we like it that way.
We are not ashamed to say or confess anything to each other... why should we be?
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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
--Khalil Gibran
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