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Mantus · 01-09-2008, 10:05 PM

A who man has issues with his girl having male friends needs to see that a sign of trouble within himself or the relationship.

My GF has many male friends. She is great friends with her previous lover and keeps in touch with past boyfriends. I don't have any hang-ups about this. In fact I encourage it. The way I figure is that if these guys can go out of the way to entertain, do favors and pay for my girl's coffee's/dinners then that's time and money saved on my end. On top of this she gets to feel wanted and sexy from all the male attention.

If she breaks our agreement and sleeps with another man. Thats OUR issue. I'd rather spend my time making sure my relationship rocks cuz if I was a poor boyfriends she'd have no trouble finding another bed to sleep in and if she wanted to keep it on the down low she'd be damn good at it.

01-09-2008, 10:05 PM	#34 (permalink)
Mantus lascivious	A who man has issues with his girl having male friends needs to see that a sign of trouble within himself or the relationship. My GF has many male friends. She is great friends with her previous lover and keeps in touch with past boyfriends. I don't have any hang-ups about this. In fact I encourage it. The way I figure is that if these guys can go out of the way to entertain, do favors and pay for my girl's coffee's/dinners then that's time and money saved on my end. On top of this she gets to feel wanted and sexy from all the male attention. If she breaks our agreement and sleeps with another man. Thats OUR issue. I'd rather spend my time making sure my relationship rocks cuz if I was a poor boyfriends she'd have no trouble finding another bed to sleep in and if she wanted to keep it on the down low she'd be damn good at it.