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Originally Posted by MrSelfDestruct
Well that was a hell of a first post.
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Agreed.
Like many have said, professional help (for her, you, and you two) is the way to go. Also, make her feel in control.
However, you have every right to be angry that this was not disclosed to you before tying the knot. Yeah it was traumatic, but where would we be without our traumatic pasts/childhoods? When you enter into a relationship implying everything they expect is OK, and know it isn't... that is a lie.
Also, a bit off topic and callous of me, you got married after dating her for only 8 months?