Oh, I think it can be done...only that the distrust is completely natural. Even if you dated my girlfriend beforehand, and you came and talked to me about it analog, I don't think that would change shit. I'd assume you were simply presenting your alpha signs by wanting to smooth everything out. I wouldn't tell my girlfriend she couldn't hang out with her ex - as seaver points out, she'll either cheat on you or she won't. I simply wouldn't completely trust you, despite the fact that I might respect your friendship and realize that you might be a great guy.
Especially if my girlfriend was doing shit that made me feel like she preferred you over me in certain situations. I think a lot of it comes down to what the non-verbal cues are like...at least in my experience. Some girls never make me feel jealous, some exes made me feel jealous all the time.
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